Hmmmm?

Well it's so strange I go through phases... Last week I was determined to stay away from Obsession. This week is a short week and this morning has been... interesting. I stopped to get donuts for a group at work that I needed to get some for and decided to get my area donuts as well. I knew what Obsession liked so I got him his kind. Brought it to him this morning and told him I couldn't help myself. We had a nice chat. Laughing as usual. We got on the topic of another guys' attractiveness in the office and he joked that he hears about the other guys' attractiveness a lot. And I asked him if he knew he was attractive like that, and then I said, well you are attractive. He thanked me and we moved on.

His coworkers showed up and we kept talking. We got on the topic of Ed Sheeran and how he's not very attractive but the more you get to know him he's a great guy in his interviews etc. that he becomes more attractive. And Obsession's coworker asked if guys were like that. That getting to know someone's personality made them more attractive. He said yes. She pried more saying she didn't think guys were like that, that most were shallow. He went into detail, that if a girl was fun to be around, had great conversations and was complimentary he would find himself attracted to her. And I couldn't help but wonder if he was saying that for my benefit. ONLY because I had just complimented him. We talked about Ex and how he wasn't very attractive but he treated me really well. Obsession asked what happened to him. I shared about how we didn't share the same beliefs and he was as deep as a puddle. Obsession asked if I had given him a chance. I told him we were together for 4 years, I definitely gave him a chance.

But Obsession's coworker mentioned that she heard a song and got teary-eyed thinking of Obsession and his cute little family and how much he loves them and how he better stay with his wife.

Update: So towards the end of the day I get an email from Obsession asking how he downloads the photos I shared of our work event. I'm still kind of surprised he wants them. But he was on his way out the door and said he'd talk to me about it today but he's at training this morning and will be available after I leave for my own work event and tomorrow I'm workin in the local office. So alas I guess it'll have to wait till next week. But again... interesting that he actually wants to download the photos.