I got a drunk call from him at 1:30 Sunday night, technically Monday (11/16). He was hard to hear and understand because of how loud it was but I got the impression he was calling because he and his friend were too drunk to drive home. I kept trying to figure out where they were so I could come pick them up but couldn't hear a thing. A few minutes later I called him again and he was in the car on the way home. He was dropping off his friend and he asked me to come over. At first I told him there was no reason to come over but then he started getting emotional. Talking about how he has no one, he's depressed and I could tell he was beyond drunk.
I made the decision to go over and get him into bed and let him talk and that was it. I knew it was possibly a stupid move but I felt like there was no chance it would go further, he'd probably pass out before we could have sex.
So I got there at 2am and helped him get into bed. He hinted around to wanting sex and I told him that wasn't going to happen because he was too drunk and that I was only there to help him get into bed and let him talk. He was super appreciative that I was even there. He got emotional and we talked for a good couple of hours. Of course, we were cuddling up to eachother while he talked so yes, it was slightly intimate.
He would randomly turn the topic to why we weren't having sex, and I kept telling him it was because he was too drunk. He asked me to kiss him and I did and thats when things turned to sexual. The sex was not nearly as good as the first time, only because he was still not fully sober or functional. But I will say I did get off a few times. The poor guy didn't even get one. I found out shortly after the sexual stuff started that he had to be awake at 5am for work!
Ok since writing the above I've gone about my day. I have been a little concerned about my attachment with The Drummer so I decided not to text him today. Sure enough I get a call from him tonight! We talked for about 20 minutes and he ran out of minutes but then called me back (after buying more) and we continued to talk for another hour! It's so strange. I'm frustrated that he's now making any efforts. It's going to make it harder to keep my distance. (sigh)
So back to that morning. There were a couple oddities that night. I could tell he wasn't just talking to talk. He has feelings for me. The next morning I left so my brother wouldn't wake up and see I was gone and ask where or who I was with. I tried to make sure The Drummer was up before I left so he wouldn't be late for work but he kept falling back to sleep.
I got home and went straight to bed. I slept till about 9 and got up. I started to feel horrible about the events that took place. Why had I allowed myself to fall back into that situation? I was shocked it happened so quickly. It's only been two weeks! I was pretty discouraged about the whole situation for most of the morning.
The Drummer called me after work (he only ended up working half day) and we talked about the stuff that happened. He was in a great mood and totally flirty and upbeat about everything that it helped set my mind at ease to some extent. He wanted me to come over as soon as his roommates left so that we could have sex with him being sober. I was seriously tempted! But luckily I had a busy day and it was a good excuse to give him. I honestly just wasn't sure how to feel about the whole situation! I mean he still has feelings for that one girl for goodness sakes! Ugh!
So the week went by and we kept in touch more regularly then ever. Yet I also felt like I was contacting him a little too much. I usually would send a quick text and that be it but even that I felt was more then he wanted. I guess I was more paranoid then anything because he's called me a lot this week. Though tonight was the first time it was out of the blue and for no apparent reason. Which tugs at my pathetic heart strings.
We talked a little about what's going on with us. He says that it's more then just sex for him that he really cares about me. He likes me (though in the midst of sex he said out of the blue "I love you too" and I was stunned, when I didn't respond he was like "ok, I only like you"... Weird/freaky). He knows that if this other girl decides to go forward with a relationship between them that will be the end of us.
It's odd... I mentioned something about not having a real relationship for years, and I could tell he got a little offended. He brought up the fact that he thought of us as more. I told him that out of my flings, he's the one I've gone the furthest with but that because of his feelings for the other girl I'm doing my best to keep him at arms length.
Yet we talk about sex like it's going to happen again. I am afraid. I'm feeling like this could gradually grow into something more. Which we both thought wouldn't be good. So why are we even allowing it to happen?
Anyways, I should get to bed... but before I go a quick tidbit about Fresno...
Fresno - We were going to meet up a couple weeks ago but it didn't work out and I didn't go out of my way to make it work. This morning he asked me to come over to his place tonight and drink. I immediately felt like it was a booty call. But it wasn't until I found out he wouldn't be available till after 9:30 that I knew. I told him I was sick and really wasn't sure I'd be up to going out there. I used it as an excuse more then anything. I'm not sure why he's still pursuing spending time with me. It seems he's gone on a rebellious spree... He never seemed to drink much either but now he's all about drinking.
My friends are all surprised I get hit on so much. I on the other hand don't think it's that much. One friend says I get hit on more then any of her other friends. Today my friend responded to a text about Fresno with "LMAO!!! Girl u can get urself into some shit huh?! I totally say that with love...". But it's true! I feel like they all come out of left field. Luckily I'm not tempted as strongly with Fresno as I am lets say The Singer or The Drummer.
I'm also curious to what will happen with the Singer and the Drummer when I see them at their next show in mid-December. I don't expect to see the Singer before then. I am curious if The Drummer has told anyone about us fooling around. I know the Bassist talked to my sister like he knew something happened between me and the Drummer but it could be purely speculation based on information others knew and not because The Drummer told him. Anyways, I wonder if the Singer has any ideas if he'd still pursue something with me. Sad that I'm actually curious to try something with him.
Well I'm off to sleep.
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