From the moment I got there I could tell he was in a great mood. Said he'd be buying me a drink right away and when the other guy decided to go home, he upped the number of drinks to two. Not sure why having that guy there or not made the number jump up but I didn't mind.
We had a great talk. We were joking around and even discussing his situation with his cousin. She's apparently pulled away quite a bit and he's realizing it's not going to work. I think it's for the best only because of all the drama they will receive if they do go through with having a relationship. I realized I didn't clarify in the last post that it is his 2nd cousin but still, kinda gross.
Well I drank my two drinks, and because I didn't even get to The Drummers place till midnight I already had a late start, I didn't have time to sober up by the time the bar closed. The Drummer had already stated that if I needed to I could crash at his place. So it was decided we'd walk back to his place because he lives just down the street. When we got out of the bar though he felt confident he could drive my car to his house without any major troubles. The whole time getting little gasps and giggles from me because I was nervous about cops and him damaging my car!
We made it back to his place and just started chillin. It was a lot of fun. We talked about anything and everything and the Bible included. It was decided I'd spend the night, though now I'm not so sure why we decided that. I really was sober enough to get home.
Anyways, at about 3:00 we decided it was time for bed. He gave me some of his pj bottoms to sleep in, I kept my shirt. It was quite comfy. I was a little surprised he was cool with us sleeping in the same bed. I had thought from the beginning he or I would be sleeping on the couch. So he put in the movie Garden State and as he did he said, "Oh did I mention it's ok to have sex if both people understand it's just that?" And of course I was laughing but still felt nothing would happen. I know... Naive! What can I say?!
So we were watching the movie and he opened his arms for me to cuddle up next to him and said it should be allowed. Of course you can imagine where that leads. A bit of rubbing and carressing and we were full on making out. He pulled me on top of him and when it got to the point of going all the way I told him I was on my period. After I was giving him head for a few seconds he asked what day, and to please tell him it wasn't day 1. I told him I was on the tail end and thats when he said to get my pants off and to get on top of him.
No major details to give other then it was fucking fantastic! He's slightly curved and me being on my period made me all that much more sensative, it didn't take very long for me to orgasm. The sex was incredible! I came a couple times before he did. Though it had been over a year since Burbank and I had sex. The Drummer said it was amazing and even said that was definitely not the last time we did that! He teased me about now realizing how much he liked me and that I should feel good about making him as hard for as long as a teenager boy!
It ended and I felt no major concerns or worries over my actions. We had a great time and we both agreed it wouldn't be the last time we did it. Though now I'm slightly concerned, only because I'm honestly not sure how to keep my emotions out of this. I've always known if I had sex with The Drummer it would tweak my emotions, unlike with Burbank when I still feel the same as I did when it was over... No attachment.
The Drummer has been a major crush for so long. And honestly I've been ok since then. I actually feel worse because I still really like the Singer and want things to happen with him. I'm not saying they can't but I just feel unsure of how this is all going to play out.
We decided we needed sleep at 5:30 and I got up at 7:30 to get back to my place to shower and head to church. I didn't start feeling the guilt of my actions till I was almost to church. I felt a sinking feeling of "what have I done!?"
Honestly, I'm not sure how I feel about my actions. Part of me says I don't regret my actions, the other part of me, the one with the good christian morals realizes how wrong my actions were. I've wanted The Drummer for so long and it honestly sucks that the sex was so good! I am not sure if we will allow ourselves to go there again. I'm doing my best to keep my distance, though we've text a lot more but not a ton. He teases me about being a vixen. Apparently as I was leaving he told me he was hard again in the morning and was hoping for one more go before I left. I, of course, didn't pick up on the clues. I was so focused on getting out of there I missed out. Though I am kinda glad we didn't only because the sex was so good the few hours prior, it would suck if the sex was mediocre.
I look back and realize we were both sober, we both realized what we were doing when we were doing it. In the midst of him being inside of me, he stopped and asked, you realize God is watching you right now. Seriously!? He would bring that up in that moment?! I gave him crap about it.
But we both agreed not to tell my brother about what happened. Though I knew by the fact that I didn't come home he would be suspicious. I told him I spent the night at a friends and I knew that wouldn't be enough for him. Sure enough after church he asked who I was with. I told him it was The Drummer and that I'd stayed at his place because I had too much to drink but stayed on the couch. My brother said he knew the moment I didn't tell him who, and that what I did was none of his business but just that I knew he didn't like The Drummer. (Sigh)
Well the above was written a couple days ago. I was texting the Drummer yesterday and asked how he was holding up. He said he was hangin in there and so I asked if he was still feeling anxious (about his cousin) and he said yes. I asked if there was anything I could do and he said "no but thank u. Unless u don't mind me being hard as a teenager!" to which i replied that I wasn't the one that was dealing with guilt and I asked how he was doing with that. He said "Fine cause I been drinkin beer and she hasn't said we're exclusive yet. If we were, nothin would have happened." I told him thats good and that made sense and to have a good night and that maybe I'd see him if the band practiced at the house this weekend. He said "cool can't wait".
I'm not sure why the part about him saying the reason we went there was because he'd been drinking beer. He was sober as far as I was concerned! But I understand the other part about nothing happening if they'd been exclusive. Something just bugged me though. I'm dealing with it. Right now it'll be very interesting to see how we relate if he commes over tomorrow.
I'm still in shock we actually had sex. But I guess looking back at the progression of our attraction and openness about it, it was inevitable.
Burbank - He's moving back down to Cali! I just talked to him for a couple hours the other night and he said his roommate and him got into it, and he's been slowly preparing to move back but now it's just pushed up to the end of the month! So I'm looking forward to him living closer!
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